Friday, 30 January 2009

Being Confident With Women

Many men are confident when all is well but, even in uncertain situations you need to man up and be confident. This is a trait that works wonders when it comes to flirt with women. There are certain flirty signals that you can show her when you are having a conversation or having a date. The eyes are the key to a successful flirt. You need to fix your eyes squarely on hers for some seconds then look away. This is enough to ensure she gets the message. When you realize that she is getting uneasy, you will know that your flirt is working. When you want to seal your flirt, talk with sexy tone. A sexy tone for men will mean going deeper in the base and talking real slow as if whispering. This will always manage to draw the attention of women. You can also use compliments or words that will flatter her like nicknames and others. Having fun is the bottom line.

This will not only help you to flirt with women but, it will make your life better. A nice guy will be known from a mile away. I'm saying that if you are thinking of putting on an act or being something you are not, you are in for a rude shock. If you are a brilliant actor, you might get away with it at least for a short time. Therefore, to flirt with a woman you need to be honest. Many men are aware that women like strong men. To some extent, this is very much true. But, strong men also have a soft side. What fascinates women more is a strong man being vulnerable and showing their soft side. Being macho will work when you are defending her but, to sustain a relationship, you need to come down and demonstrate real emotions affecting you. To win many women, you must be very confident. Lack of confidence is not only boring to a women but it is a turn off.

To flirt with women, you do not have to be the best looking guy on earth. There are several secrets that men never get. It is therefore important for you to pay attention to the following, if you want to flirt with women successfully. The first thing is your appearance. Appearance has nothing to do with looks. Preening is what I'm talking about. Most guys ignore this natural urge but, you need to pay attention to it if you want to flirt with women. This is an effort to look well groomed. You need to wear your cloths in an attractive manner. You also need to go an extra mile to shave your head in a decent or stylish manner. Whatever your style, make sure you are looking sharp. Women like men who have put an effort into looking great. If you have never put some effort, try it today and prove me right. It is not enough have a neat appearance; you need to match it with your attitude. Guys who are clean and negative will never attract a sane woman. Therefore, be a guy who has a way of looking at things from a more positive angle.

Thursday, 29 January 2009

Top Ten Lines to Tease a Girl

So, without further chitchat, here are the Top Ten Lines to Tease a Girl:

1) I like your hair color... Is it real?

2) I love your smile...But I'm looking for a girl with personality.

3) I like your voice...But not what you're saying.

4) You seem so smart. How do you manage to hide your true self?

5) You're beautiful. But beauty is so common. What is it that you have except your looks?

6) What's the craziest thing you're ever done? That's great. You and my grandma would really get along.

7) You know why you and me would never get along? We are too similar...

8) You are pretty...But not my type.

9) Hey, what's your favorite song? What? That's it. I'm going home.

10) Are you dancing or do you need to go to the toilet?

Teasing is all about being playful. At the same time you always need to come out on top in a conversation to demonstrate that you're the leader, the strong guy who is confident no matter what she says. Teasing is about being cocky and funny. It's about being brash and playful at the same time. It's about being creative: your best tools here are cold reading and purposeful misunderstanding. The basic principle is always the same: push and pull (or punishment and reward). That means that you always keep the tension in the conversation. For example tell her that you like her. Then moments later pretend you're upset by something that she did. "Negs" are suitable for teasing, but even more effective at the beginning of a conversation as you disqualify yourself from being a possible suitor.

Hoe To Flirt

Talk about future adventures

Women want excitement in their lives. That's why it's important to talk about how you're an exciting guy. Now you shouldn't start bragging about how you're a fun guy. Instead you should steer the conversation towards how you bring her on adventures with you.

When you use the "future adventures" technique, you talk and joke about all the fun stuff that you do for her. Just remember to keep it fun and lighthearted. By doing it this way, you're projecting an interesting lifestyle without being too lower status.

Knowing how to flirt with women is a skill that all guys should learn. If you can creating a flirting atmosphere immediately, then you'll be on your way to creating instant attraction. Simply follow the 5 tips I discussed in this article, and you'll be on your way to winning over every women you meet.

Understand flirting

As I said before, many guys have a misconception about the nature of flirting. Flirting is simply about creating sexual tension with a woman. The goal is to joke around with a woman and play fight with her.

Now if you want to create instant attraction, you should start flirting the moment you meet a woman. That way, you'll create positive sexual tension with her.

Bring sexual tension into the conversation

When you're flirting with a woman, you want her to think of you in a sexual way. That's why it's important to bring up sex into the conversation.

Now when I'm talking about sex, I don't mean you should tell her that you want to have sex with her. Instead you should mention different stories about your friends and some of their funny, yet sexual stories.

Also a great technique is to joke that you're going to marry her. Then go back and forth about what you'll do when you're married. Then when she does something wrong, tell her that "it's over" and you're getting a divorce. Just remember to have fun and joke around with your interaction.

Be cocky & funny

A great way to flirt with a woman is to use the cocky/funny technique. The idea behind this attitude is to cultivate a higher status personality which makes women work hard for your attention.

In order to be cocky/funny, you should tease her and focus on getting her to laugh. Just remember that cocky/funny is about having a balance of a confident personality with saying funny things. It's not about acting like a clown or being too arrogant.

Touch her

Establishing physical contact is a great way to flirt with a woman. If you can break the touch barrier you'll take that first step towards creating physical chemistry.

To touch her, concentrate on the conversation and see if you can detect certain moments when a woman is giving you positive vibes. Then touch her when you want to make a point.